We
are an order of 21st-Century nuns dedicated to the promulgation of universal joy
and the expiation of stigmatic guilt. Our ministry is one of public
manifestation and habitual perpetration. No more
guilt!!
Our work exists on many levels: making people happy,
stamping out guilt brought on by judgmental society, drag activism, helping
various organizations and charities. Our core mission and commitment to our
philosophy requires the ability to work with people and the desire to learn and
grow. We are first and foremost nuns, gay nuns. We serve our community with
faith and without judgment. We seek to uplift each person’s spirit. And we spend
hours on our knees in obedient supplication. We even take vows. Usually vows of
iniquity. Men and women from across the spectrum of the GLBT community join
together, first as a Mission and then as independent house of the Sisters of
Perpetual Indulgence to celebrate our gay identity in the unique manner in which
we minister to the community. The decision to become a Sister is a fantastic
journey and the efforts made came back again and again as a reward for the soul.
By manifesting as a Sister, we receive as much as or even more than we give and
discover parts of ourselves that we did not know existed or, perhaps, never
recognized. The calling to be a Sister of Perpetual Indulgence allows one to
know themselves better and find an outlet to express behavior and emotions that
were shut down for fear of being different or criticized. There it is –
stigmatic guilt.
Freedom
of Expression
Each person is an individual and each
situation is unique. Each Sister of Perpetual Indulgence has a calling to work
on behalf of others and a community that at times seems lost, fragmented and
self condemning. By choosing the path of becoming a Sister, we become
comfortable with our self expression as a nun in the persona of a Sister of
Perpetual Indulgence. Using the experience and hope of the Sisters around the
world, we find our way as a Sister in service to the GLBT community. All nuns do
not love all other nuns. True in all other aspects of life also. It is the
commonality of purpose and the acceptance of a broad range of opinions that
allow us to do our sacred work with creativity and
self-expression.
Diversity
We are family. “Family” means freedom to be an individual in a
close-knit group of individuals. We are far from perfect and like many families,
often have our misunderstandings. Despite that, when we all work towards our
common goals, miracles can and do happen.There is room for a lot of fun in the
Sisters, but we take our vows very seriously and feel a genuine calling to do
this work so that the commitment never waivers. We feel no need to separate or
discriminate different people into separate affiliated organizations. In fact,
to do so would be hypocritical and contrary to our statement of purpose. Being a
Sister is one of the most challenging and demanding things an individual can
ever do. It requires skills that many never knew they had as well as an
investment in time, energy and money. It also takes drive, passion and a desire
to perform community service. It requires the ability to handle many tasks with
grace and humor, honesty and genuine character; good people skills and the
ability to interact with other in a meaningful way. But that isn’t all. Being a
Sister offers rich and enduring rewards that make propel us to do even
more.
Social Activism
Inherently,
by our very nature, we are inescapably agents of political change. Some members
wish to identify only with the social service or spiritual aspects of the order,
but there is no escape from the controversial and political qualities of being a
Sister and taking actions affecting various social issues The activist tradition
of the Sisters spawned in the early years demanding funding for AID’s research
and education as well as care of those struck down with what was then a terminal
illness was again demonstrated with the burning of the Pope in effigy during his
1987 visit to the US. While viewed as extreme and heretical in mainstream
society, when the Pope denounced gays as immoral and a blight against God and
Jesus, the Sisters took a stand against the absolute rejection and condemnation
that is the official policy of the organized Catholic church. We believe that
hate and discrimination must be confronted in any of its forms and whenever it
appears. Institutionalized prejudice, however it manifests, belittles the human
spirit and berates the human soul. We do not judge, we celebrate any and all
expressions of the human experience and believe that there is room for everyone
to express themselves fully without harm to any other. It was only 30 years ago
that the Gay Liberation Front took to the streets refusing to continue to hide
and demanding basic human dignity. We marched into the streets yelling, “I’m
here. I’m queer. And I’m not going away.” We kept doing it until the politicians
and the medical establishment paid attention to all the men dying around us
every day. In 1980 the Sisters of Perpetual Indulgence authored “Play Safe” the
first sex positive educational guide available to continue living in the midst
of an epidemic that took thousands of lives. The Sisters continue this activism
in everything we do and by simply being. We are out, we are proud and we
celebrate the gift of being gay. lesbian, bisexual, trans-sexual and
trans-gendered.
Social Service
Ours is a ministry of “presence”. We do all that traditional nuns
have done for centuries. We are 21st-century nuns, free from guilt associated
with many traditional religions. The Sisters of Perpetual Indulgence have raised
hundreds of thousands of dollars for AIDS and other social causes that continue
to afflict not only the GLBT community but the lives of young people, men and
women in every aspect of life. With HIV and AID’s again on the increase, STD
rates exploding, crystal meth use creating co-existing dependencies that defy
treatment, and difficult to diagnose MRSA infection, the work of the Sisters is
continues to be as important today as it was when the first epidemic ravaged our
community. We do not condemn. Our ministry is life affirming and sex positive.
We visit the sick, educate and promote safer sex and, through service the
community, bring enlightenment and hope.
Spiritual Development
There is a great freedom
within SPI to discover and express various qualities, aspects and
spirituality an individual may feel. We educate and promote safer sex
practices because part of self-love is respecting and taking care of
yourself. Also, by our very appearance, we reintroduce to the community
the spirit of “other”, and of the shamanic sacred fool that is the Drag
Queen’s historical role in society. If there is room for us to look like
we do, then there is room for every gay , lesbian and trans-gendered
individual to be who and what they are without the institutionalized
shame, guilt and degradation assigned our GLBT people by society. Egoism
that leads to bitchy and uncooperative impulses within permeates our past
and tends to continue today in many aspects of gay culture. As a Sister,
we step out of ego and focus on things bigger and more important than our
self interest. In addition to the very serious work we do, the Sisters
provide fun, laughter and levity as well as a premium sexual outlet for
aficionados of grease paint and pubic glitter.
Commitment
Becoming a
Fully Professed Sister of Perpetual Indulgence is not an easy journey. It is not
supposed to be. It requires fortitude, humility, tremendous desire and the
ability to listen, observe and learn. As with all nuns, priests, clerics,
shamans, Brahmins, and other holy individuals around the world, there is
inherent and immense amount of self-sacrifice. Sisters may not always agree with
each other on a particular direction that the House is pursuing, but we are
expected to work for the good of the group and the community. Many times since
the founding of The Sisters of Perpetual Indulgence, nuns and guards have made
personal sacrifices so that SPI would reap the full benefits of their efforts.
Each individual has performed mundane but necessary services to the Sisters,
participated in functions that they would not normally care to attend, and given
up some of their personal freedoms so that the group would flourish, or even
participated with the group though they were in poor health or physical
pain.
Courage
There are over 600 Sisters around the world with twelve orders and
three missions in the United States joined by another 22 houses in nine
countries. Through world domination, the Sisters of Perpetual Indulgence strive
to free the human spirit and celebrate the unique form that spirit takes in each
of us. As aSister, we carry the remarkable dedication and inspiration of every
Sister in our hearts to give us strength as we follow the path that other
Sisters have followed since 1980. Sisters that have gone before and fell in the
battle with the epidemic. The challenges our community faces today are different
but yet they are the same. As a Sister, we choose to join all Sisters of
Perpetual Indulgence to be out front and celebrate our unique gift of gayness
and to keep the issues we face in front of those who sometimes forget that we
are still a minority whose protected rights still do not universally include the
ability to live and love in the same manner as the heterosexual majority. It is
our calling to keep pushing, to keep walking forward. Just don’t get your high
heels stuck in a crack in the sidewalk
This is what it means to a Sister within the sanctuary Sisters of
Perpetual Indulgence…
To support and advance the freedom of
self expression and all inherent human values of all GLBT persons.
To serve the GLBT community in achieving
social, economic, and political equality.
To explore and express the attributes and unique gifts given to me as a GLBT person
by my Higher Power with the hope of learning not only to accept myself but love
the person I am.